The Result-Focus Trap
OK, so I admit it. I admit it's really hard to convince yourself that the path to winning is to stop trying to win. It's just so counter-intuitive. It feels irresponsible to stop chasing the ultimate goal to get to the ultimate goal. It's like trying less to get more. In the beginning you almost feel like you are letting yourself down, you feel ashamed that your hardness has been replaced with intelligence (it hasn't by the way, it's just been joined by intelligence, not repl
